Feeling bad for the toxic person does not mean that they shouldn't be punished. Sometimes they don't even realize how bad their behavior is and need the punishment to realize their wrong doing. With that said though, you should feel bad for the toxic person. I know it is easy to get angry back or even let them get to you but most of the time it really has nothing to do with you. The toxic person is that way because they are unhappy in real life. Happy people don't go out of their way to make others unhappy, there is no reason to when you are happy. When you are really happy you just want others to join in and feel as happy as you are, its intoxicating and infectious. It could just be a bad day, and that person is lashing out because of it. It could be multiple bad days, or a situation that they feel stuck in, whatever it is, it is bringing them down. This doesn't mean that every unhappy person is going to take it out on others but the unhappiness definitely can make it easy to do so. I'm sure you've had a time in your life where you were mad about something and someone else came along not really doing anything to you but you still got upset with them anyways. This is much easier to do in video games because of the anonymity and there are probably a lot of people who don't feel bad about it because they didn't have to see the other persons reaction. You don't have to accept that persons behavior as normal, mute, block, report them, and hopefully they will realize what they've done wrong. If you are on the other end of this and are the toxic person, troll, or griefer, take some time to figure out what is truly bothering you. Are you in physical or emotional pain? Is there someone who upset you and you didn't talk to them about it? Are you in a situation that is making you unhappy? Did you just have a bad day? The list goes on, but if you use that energy to figure out a solution to the problem instead of taking it out on others you can put yourself in a much better place. Even if there isn't a solution to the problem, you could still cope with it in a more productive way. You shouldn't bottle up your emotions but there is a better way to deal with them than taking it out on others. If you don't know what that is look it up, there are tons of different things you can do to help yourself, not all of them may work for you but if you take the time you will find one that does you can and will be happy. There is no reason to stay miserable when you could be doing something to change your situation, even if that change is just the way you look at it. CategoriesAll Crochet Guild-wars-2 League Of Legends Life Overwatch World-of-warcraft
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