2/22/2017 0 Comments Love and My ParentsLove is something that is really powerful. There have been stories of people picking up things of immense weight to save their child that was trapped under it, or going to the greatest lengths to save someone. It is truly amazing what someone can do and survive because of love.
My Dad had a brain aneurysm (which is where a blood vessel breaks in the brain, it is super scary and people normally die if it isn't caught before it breaks or they are really really messed up if they survive). He lived. That is the most important thing that I can tell you but besides him living he actually is pretty okay. He has some issue with his memory but there isn't that much wrong with him. Which is nothing short of a miracle. He had three churches praying for him and countless other people and for the most part he is okay today! It is amazing that he lived not only did he survive the aneurysm but he also survived aspirating into his lungs (which is where food goes into your lungs and it actually caused most of his complications). My mom also almost died twice. She had potassium so low that she shouldn't have been alive, and kidney failure. I don't know these stories as well thought because my dad didn't really tell what was going on at the time. Okay so why I'm I telling you this? These are two sad happy stories to start off talking about love. I truly believe that both of them survived with help but also because of love. They had something to come back to and that is really important. My dad remembers taking boats to get back home to my mom and I (he was in the hospital for about 3 months). And my mom had my dad and I to come back to. My parents are terrible at communicating with each other. I ask them all the time did you talk to the other person about whatever they would be telling and the answer is normally no. Which I still don't understand but what can you do, they are the ones that have to fix that one. I know that they love each other though, even though they are terrible at communicating because we've been through so much shit and still they find ways to try and be there for each other. My mom has fibromyalgia and other things wrong with her and yet when my dad was in the hospital she was there almost the whole time. She even slept there because it was an hour away. Even though she was in so much pain herself, she still did pretty much everything she could to be there for him. And the same goes for my dad he was working at the time but he tried to do everything he could for my mom when she was in the hospital and does things like buying her little presents when she is feeling really bad. I think doing these things are important, and realizing how much you love someone is important too. I know for me I want to do everything that I possibly can for my boyfriend when he has been sick. And I would for my family too. If you could do one thing for me, I would hope that you would take the time to realize how important love is and how important the people you love are. Love is something very powerful, it gives you strength when you thought you had none and can allow you to do more than you ever thought possible.
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